There are two types of people in love life:
The lover lives the relationship with passion, with absolute surrender, with romanticism, while the Beloved... He only lets himself be loved, he lets himself be idolized.
He likes to be adored and loved in an unparalleled way, without getting to the point of romanticism, he is only satisfied with being loved.
The beginning of any relationship is magnificent, wonderful, you wish it would never end and in the end the unexpected happens, you end it and you break your heart trying to forget, to be able to fill that emptiness with someone else, you are aware that this will not cure it, even so you try, you let yourself go, you let yourself be loved even if it is not what you really want, you let them love you the way you did, that is when you realize that they break our hearts so much, that we are only satisfied with being lovers and not loved, we prefer not to suffer but rather we create a vicious circle, of the; they hurt me, I hurt.
Without knowing the emotional pain that we make suffer to a person who was not to blame for our mistakes and ghosts of the past, the loved ones just wanted to show us a new way of loving, without so much complex, without so much drama, love is not a war, it is something so simple, so beautiful, so honest, so fragile, that sometimes for past mistakes we screw what really makes us well.
Let us be loved and lovers at the same time, all that is mutual is good for us.
It was my turn to be one of those who love.
Photography by Giorgibel
