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No puedo hacer nada
\ncontra lo hecho:
\nno eres t\u00fa
\nquien duerme conmigo
\ny, a veces,
\nesa incapacidad
\nme destroza.<\/p>\n

No pude evitar ser
\nla no elegida
\ny, a veces,
\nesa incapacidad
\nme reclama,
\nme mata de insomnio.<\/p>\n

Haberte dejado ir,
\nhaberme hecho
\nde una vida sin ti,
\na veces pesa, tanto
\nque me rompe.
\nMe tumba en la cama
\ny hace que los d\u00edas pasen
\nsin pena ni gloria.<\/p>\n

Haberte dejado ir,
\nsin conceder nada
\nhace mi vida com\u00fan,
\nmis d\u00edas se cuentan
\nen reversa,
\nmis noches lloran
\nuna despedida.<\/p>\n

Esa incapacidad
\nde hacernos uno,
\nde amarte
\ny me ames
\nes la \u00fanica raz\u00f3n
\nde mi desgracia.<\/p>\n

A veces,
\nesa incapacidad
\nde encontrarte
\nme destroza,
\nme quema,
\nme rompe.<\/p>\n

No puedo hacer nada
\ncontra lo hecho:
\nno fuiste t\u00fa
\nquien renunci\u00f3.
\nY, siempre,
\nesa decisi\u00f3n
\nme mata.<\/p>\n

Photography by Fragile Ruins<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

No puedo hacer nada contra lo hecho: no eres t\u00fa quien duerme conmigo y, a veces, esa incapacidad me destroza. No pude evitar ser la no elegida y, a veces, esa incapacidad me reclama, me mata de insomnio. Haberte dejado ir, haberme hecho de una vida sin ti, a veces pesa, tanto que me rompe. 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