{"id":164577,"date":"2020-12-28T17:31:08","date_gmt":"2020-12-28T06:31:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/errr-magazine.com\/?p=164577"},"modified":"2026-06-10T11:12:11","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T17:12:11","slug":"hey-thats-no-way-to-say-goodbye","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/errr-magazine.com\/english\/hey-thats-no-way-to-say-adios\/","title":{"rendered":"Hey, that&#8217;s no way to say adios"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Encend\u00ed mi celular, puse la playlist que hab\u00eda creado hace tiempo.<\/p>\n<p><em>I loved you in the morning<br \/>\n<\/em><em>Our kisses deep and warm<br \/>\n<\/em><em>Your hair upon the pillow<br \/>\n<\/em><em>Like a sleepy golden storm.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>La voz de Feist sonaba a mitad de la noche. Est\u00e1bamos fuera de su casa. Ella comenz\u00f3 a llorar.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u00bfQu\u00e9 te sucede, nena?<br \/>\n&#8211; Lo siento, Ed. Es que no puedo soportarlo.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00bfHay alg\u00fan problema? Dime, te puedo ayudar.<br \/>\n&#8211; S\u00ed hay un problema. S\u00ed hay un maldito problema. T\u00fa y yo, nunca podremos estar juntos de verdad.<br \/>\n&#8211; \u00bfDe qu\u00e9 hablas, cari\u00f1o? Estamos juntos ahora.<br \/>\n&#8211; Lo s\u00e9, pero no ser\u00e1 as\u00ed. Es que la diferencia de edad, 10 a\u00f1os, es el problema, Ed. T\u00fa en alg\u00fan momento vas a querer casarte, tener hijos, una familia, una casa. Y yo no estoy lista para eso.<\/p>\n<p>Me qued\u00e9 en silencio.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Sinceramente yo quiero tener a alguien de mi edad, alguien que me entienda y me abrace. S\u00e9 que t\u00fa me entiendes, porque contigo puedo ser yo misma, contigo no tengo que fingir ser alguien m\u00e1s. Pero quiero disfrutar mi juventud m\u00e1s tiempo, no quiero atarme a ti.<br \/>\n&#8211; Entonces este es el adi\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Me dirig\u00ed hacia el auto, caminando lento, sin mirar hacia atr\u00e1s esperando que ella me alcanzara y dijera que no me fuera.<\/p>\n<p>Sub\u00ed al auto, puse el celular v\u00eda bluetooth y esper\u00e9 un momento m\u00e1s, a\u00fan sin voltear a verla. Segu\u00ed esperando. Ella no regres\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><em>But now it&#8217;s come to distances<br \/>\n<\/em><em>And both of us must try<br \/>\n<\/em><em>Your eyes are soft with sorrow<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Llegu\u00e9 a mi casa y encend\u00ed el tocadiscos.<\/p>\n<p>Me qued\u00e9 sentado a la orilla de mi cama, pensando en todo lo que vivimos en estos meses. 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