{"id":164558,"date":"2020-12-28T17:11:23","date_gmt":"2020-12-28T06:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/errr-magazine.com\/?p=164558"},"modified":"2026-06-10T11:12:13","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T17:12:13","slug":"u-are-doin-it-ok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/errr-magazine.com\/english\/u-are-doin-it-ok\/","title":{"rendered":"U are doin&#8217; it ok"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Es sorprendente c\u00f3mo es que me he entrenado a m\u00ed misma para no sentir sentimientos externos. <\/span>Un mensaje, flores, la dedicatoria de una canci\u00f3n que ya hab\u00eda escuchado. De alguien, para otro alguien. De ese alguien para m\u00ed. No me inmuta en absoluto, observo la redacci\u00f3n del mensaje, no dice mucho, se me hace trivial y no le tomo importancia, la flores are such a clich\u00e9, le agradezco a quien me la dio y las pongo en agua, no tienen la culpa de estar ah\u00ed por la falta de creatividad de alguien m\u00e1s, adem\u00e1s s\u00ed que me gustan las flores, m\u00e1s no el discurso. La canci\u00f3n me hace recordar el rango de tiempo en la que la escuch\u00e9 por primera vez, en vez de pensar en la persona que me la dedic\u00f3. C\u00f3mo odi\u00e9 el 2017.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\">Despu\u00e9s de ser lastimada una se acostumbra a la paz interior de la falta de amor rom\u00e1ntico, a solo recibir mensajes del trabajo y a alg\u00fan mensaje casual de vez en cuando. A sentir nostalgia de vez en cuando, de cuando los sentimientos y la emoci\u00f3n de encontrarse con alguien por el simple hecho estar enamorada. El \u201cde vez en cuando\u201d es pasajero, no dura una tarde entera, maybe una playlist s\u00ed, pero nada m\u00e1s y se agradece. La nostalgia tambi\u00e9n trae la ansiedad del pasado, las inseguridades y el llanto. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\">Involucrarse demasiado es peligroso, prefiero el desapego y no pensar en amor rom\u00e1ntico ni en alguna persona en especial me hace sentir sinceramente c\u00f3moda. Todo esto es en un intento de m\u00ed misma por crear un escudo, una defensa para no ser lastimada por alg\u00fan desconocido. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\">Y pensar que casi todas las pel\u00edculas, libros, canciones y dramas coreanos idealizan las relaciones. Verlo en pantalla o escrito en hojas est\u00e1 bien para m\u00ed, incluso llego a emocionarme, ir\u00f3nico, \u00bfno? Pero de nuevo pienso que la hora con quince minutos que dura mi drama coreano es la raci\u00f3n exacta que necesito para liberar los sentimientos mundanos que idealizo y necesito. Funny thing I GUESS. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\">A veces pienso que est\u00e1 mal en alguna manera u otra pero luego recuerdo el llanto de nuevo, el \u00e1lbum que Alvvays que escuch\u00e9 y escuch\u00e9, que no ced\u00eda ni sedaba mi tristeza, el dolor en el pecho, el enojo de que yo estuviera as\u00ed fuera la culpa de un completo extra\u00f1o. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p3\"><span class=\"s2\">As\u00ed que s\u00ed, <em>qu\u00e9 buen escudo<\/em> me digo a m\u00ed misma, u are doin&#8217; it ok. :)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Photography by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/la_perez\/\">perezful<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Es sorprendente c\u00f3mo es que me he entrenado a m\u00ed misma para no sentir sentimientos externos. 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