{"id":158654,"date":"2020-04-28T01:56:45","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T15:56:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/errr-magazine.com\/?p=158654"},"modified":"2026-06-10T11:14:37","modified_gmt":"2026-06-10T17:14:37","slug":"no-es-tu-culpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/errr-magazine.com\/english\/no-es-tu-culpa\/","title":{"rendered":"No es tu culpa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A veces pasa que nos topamos con personas a las que no les interesamos ni una mierda y est\u00e1n con nosotros porque se sienten solos.<\/p>\n<p>Seguramente est\u00e1s leyendo esto mientras recuerdas a alguna persona en tu pasado que te hizo creer que te hab\u00edas sacado la loter\u00eda\u2026 y de repente te hizo querer morir.<\/p>\n<p>Mi prop\u00f3sito aqu\u00ed no es ponerle m\u00e1s sal a la herida ni nada por el estilo; M\u00e1s bien quiero que sepas lo siguiente:<\/p>\n<p>No podemos cambiar el pasado, si alguien te hizo mierda m\u00e1s vale que lo superes -no necesariamente que le perdones-, y seguir con tu vida.<\/p>\n<p>Seguramente esa persona no piensa m\u00e1s en eso, quiz\u00e1s ni sepa que te caus\u00f3 tanto da\u00f1o como para que sigas yendo a terapia o sigas llorando por \u00e9l\/ella en las pedas hoy d\u00eda.<\/p>\n<p>Y no te sientas mal solo porque alguien te hizo sufrir, nos pasa a todos alguna vez.<\/p>\n<p>No porque estemos pendejos, sino que a veces queremos m\u00e1s que otras veces, bajamos la guardia y cuando menos lo pensamos estamos en alg\u00fan lugar llorando porque nos vieron la cara de est\u00fapidos.<\/p>\n<p>Seguramente esas personas no cambiar\u00e1n nunca y est\u00e1 bien, esa mierda pasa todo el tiempo, lo he visto pasar muchas veces, me ha pasado.<\/p>\n<p>Tal vez todos deber\u00edamos acostumbrarnos a las personas que nos lastiman, as\u00ed cuando se pasen de pendejos con nosotros una vez m\u00e1s no nos sentiremos mal ,porque sabremos que as\u00ed es fulanito o fulanita. Y diremos: -\u00abBueno, as\u00ed es, una vez m\u00e1s me la volvi\u00f3 a aplicar\u00bb-.<\/p>\n<p>O tal vez no deber\u00edamos de acostumbrarnos a esa basura y pasar de largo inmediatamente. Pero las cosas no son tan f\u00e1ciles siempre, pasa que somos muy tercos.<\/p>\n<p>Mi intenci\u00f3n no es guiarte, nunca fui buena gu\u00eda, ni ejemplo, ni nada que se le parezca.<\/p>\n<p>No pretendo cambiarte la vida, solo estoy aburrida escuchando a los Current boys un viernes de cuarentena por la noche mientras espero a que llegue mi six de chelas que ped\u00ed en una app.<\/p>\n<p>Photography by\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/camerafilmlens\/\">Camerafilmlens<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A veces pasa que nos topamos con personas a las que no les interesamos ni una mierda y est\u00e1n con nosotros porque se sienten solos. 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